Ha, I'm not telling my husband that one. He'd agree. Makes perfect sense to me ...
Actually, the whole 'women are from Mars, men are from Venus' thing makes for a good debate. The difference between the sexes and what they want to hear as opposed to what is actually being said to them. For example, when my husband and I are getting ready to go out, I'll say 'which do you prefer, the black top or the red one?' That is exactly what I mean.
What he says he hears is ' I know both of these tops are perfect. I just want to see if you realise that. Whichever one I choose will be wrong, but I'll also be wrong if I say either, they both look good. Because then you'll accuse me of not being bothered.'