Don't like your reality? Change it-- here's how! Learn to achieve goals, have healthy friendships and not give way to discouragement--and laugh while doing it!.
Reading "It Is What It Is...But It Doesn't Have To Be That Way!" is like having a conversation with your witty big sister. But it's not like you're reading the words of some know-it-all who hasn't been in your shoes;instead Jan, as she's known by her friends, has taken the "hot seat" and has put herself under the magnifying glass. She takes her personal philosophies and uses her personal life experiences to show you just how she learned each valuable lesson.